new tv technology: Things I Love About Being Single

I know Valentine?s Day can be rough if you are single.? I went through many single Valentine?s Day?s in my life.? It kinda sucks to have love thrown in your face when you don?t have it.?? I wanted to write a post to encourage all the single guys and gals out there, but then I came across Catherine?s post.? I thought it was so great I wanted to use it on my own blog.? Catherine was gracious enough to let me.? She wrote this post over a year ago and titled it Things I Love About Being Single on her blog, Simply Solo.? I hope her positive message about being single will help you through those rough moments you may be having in your own single life, especially around Valentine?s Day.

While being single definitely has its downsides (I can?t tell you how much I miss having someone to say goodnight to every night and there?s nothing like having a date for every work function or wedding imaginable), there are some definite positives to being single that I?m starting to realize. And please, someone remind me of this list when Christmas and Valentine?s Day roll around and I?m alone, OK?

Here are the top things I love about being single:

Going to bed whenever I want, and getting up whenever I want. There?s no one to share the bed and interrupt my beauty sleep. And, there is definitely no one to wake me up with their endless snoring, at which point I have to kick them (semi-softly), which definitely interrupts a girl?s sleeping patterns.
I can flirt with anything that walks. Sometimes, you just gotta flirt. And when you?ve been with the same guy since you were 18, sometimes you just gotta flirt A LOT. Just to make sure you?ve still got it. Definitely can?t do that in a relationship.
Opportunity to reconnect with old friends and family. It?s amazing the relationships that you put to the side (and you may not even notice it) when you are in a relationship. I?ve loved taking the time to reconnect with those people ? and have learned my lesson that I will never become disconnected from them again.
Time, time, time. Time to do whatever the hell I want. Like learn how to cook, start a blog, read book after book and actually use the gym membership I?ve had for a million years. Um, for the record, I haven?t really learned to cook and the gym hasn?t seen me in quite a while, but that?s neither here nor there.
No one to judge my ice cream intake. Maybe this one is a little specific to me, but there?s nothing better than eating a bowl of ice cream for dinner. Being single allows me that luxury. I can eat all the ice cream in the world, and there is no one to judge me as I stand in the kitchen after a long day?s work with a spoon, freezer door wide open, taking just one bite (maybe two or three) of Cookies and Cream. Maybe not so good once I go through a gallon in a week, but liberating none the less.
Similar to the above, no one to judge my toilet paper usage. My ex used to be amazed at the amount of toilet paper I would use weekly. I?m not sure where it all goes, but I guess I like to keep a pretty clean behind. Sometimes, I find myself using a million squares and laughing literally out loud because of how amazing it feels to use all the toilet paper in the world, and no one will ever know. Until they read this blog.
No more annoying conversations about what to eat tonight. You know the ones, where you say, ?What would you like to eat tonight?? And he says, ?Oh, I could do anything, whatever you want.? You: ?What about Chinese?? Him: ?Um, no, not feeling Chinese.? You: ?Thought you said you could eat anything?! What about that pizza place down the road?? Him: ?No, I?m not really feeling that either. Maybe we should make something here?? You: ?Ugh, I don?t feel like cooking. Maybe I?ll just eat cereal.? These conversations are like my personal hell. Make a decision and eat. It?s not that serious.
I can watch whatever the hell I want on TV. And that means, endless hours of Keeping Up With The Kardashians, Food Network Challenge galore, Bachelorette every Monday night and whatever else I find that seems vaguely interesting. And there is no one to steal my remote control ? cause it?s my house!
Walk around naked. And not get smacked on the butt or hear lewd comments when doing so. Sometimes, walking around naked when you are living with a guy is like walking around naked next to a construction site. While I appreciate the recognition, sometimes you just wanna walk around naked for no good reason and have no one address it. You can do that as a single girl (just be sure the curtains are closed!).
Do nothing. Literally, do nothing. Don?t shower, leave the house, get out of my PJs, etc., for a whole weekend if I want. And there is no one to annoyingly remind me of how nice a day it is outside, or how I really should get some fresh air, or gosh, you are really starting to stink ? think you?ll shower today? If I want to stay home and be a total bum, it?s my prerogative.
Things are exactly as I left them. And I mean that to say, I don?t come home to a mess that I didn?t create, or food that has mysteriously disappeared from the fridge. And speaking of food in the fridge, I can buy all the Weight Watchers ice cream sandwiches I want, and not worry about someone eating three of them because one is just not enough, never mind that those tiny portions and low fat vanilla imitation ice cream cost an arm and a leg. They are all mine.
No one to ruin my mood. You know how when you are in a relationship, and sometimes you are in such a good mood, but your boyfriend/girlfriend had a shitty day and they somehow ruin your day too? Not like they meant to, but somehow they brought down your entire mood? Now, I own my moods. Good or bad. And, when I?m in a bad mood, I don?t have to answer someone a million times when they ask what?s wrong, did they do something wrong, what am I thinking? It?s just me, with my crappy mood, all evening long. Eating Weight Watchers ice cream and using absurd amounts of toilet paper.
No one to criticize my driving. I?m a terrible driver. Probably among the worst. However, I can live with myself, and even find it humorous sometimes. I crack myself up sometimes when I jump an obvious curb, and I know how ridiculous it is that I?m a 25 year old woman who doesn?t know how to parallel park. But, I can live with myself, and I don?t have to hear anyone else?s commentary about my driving if I don?t want to.
I can have guy friends again. Not that I was ever forbidden from having guy friends, but sometimes when you are in a relationship, it?s hard to keep guy friends around. Your partner will often think something is going on, even if it?s not, and sometimes guy friends come with awkward situations. Now, I can be friends with whoever I want, and not worry what anyone thinks of it.
Getting to know new people. While there?s definitely something to be said for knowing one person so much that you love them for everything they are and possibly can be, there is this amazing feeling you get when you meet someone new. The initial conversations, learning of their background, laughing, telling stories and connecting with another human being that you weren?t connected with before can be so much fun. For example, last night I literally spent more than four hours on the phone with a guy I just met (the Chef ? you?ll hear more about him soon. Our first date is tomorrow. But after four hours on the phone, it almost feels like a second date). You can?t connect in this way with new people with you are in a relationship.
No obligatory sex. You may think this is a weird one to include on the list, but we?ve all done it. We?ve all had sex when we weren?t really in the mood. Your partner is really in the mood. You are absolutely not, had a rough day and are just not feeling it. Maybe you literally ?have a headache.? But, you have sex with them. You do it because, well, they asked, and they made dinner last night, maybe tomorrow?s their birthday, and well, you would want them to do it for you too if the tables were turned. A single girl does not need to worry one bit about this conundrum.
?First kisses. There?s nothing like a first kiss. Really, there?s nothing like the first 20 kisses with a new partner (assuming they are a good kisser!). I plan to enjoy these ? fully.
No one to answer to. I can go where I want, when I want. I can stay out late, go to bed early, talk on the phone till late in the night, drop by a friend?s house to just say hello and because I don?t have any plans. I can do all these things, and not really report to anyone what time I?ll be home, or if I?ll be seeing them for dinner. While there are times that I wonder if I were to get kidnapped if anyone would notice, I definitely think overall this is a plus to being single.
Crushed velvet purple curtains. Yes, you heard that right. I have crushed velvet purple curtains in my bedroom. And I absolutely love them. No guy in his right mind would want those in his bedroom, but as a single girl I can adorn my space with whatever the hell I want. Including a picture of butterflies above my bed. Because that?s how I roll.